Self-Reflection Questions

Sometimes the most important conversation is the one we have with ourselves. These self-reflection questions help you pause for a moment and honestly look at where you are and where you want to go.

Where am I now?

  • What am I grateful for today?
  • When did I last feel truly content?
  • What fills me with energy, and what drains me?
  • What have I changed most about myself in the past year?

Get to know yourself better

The Cards by Guessy app has a dedicated self-reflection category full of thought-provoking questions. Try it free.

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Values and choices

  • What three values do I want to live by?
  • Which decision am I most proud of?
  • What am I most afraid of – and how realistic is that fear?
  • Whose opinion influences me too much?

My future

  • What kind of person do I want to be in five years?
  • What's one thing I've been putting off for too long?
  • What would my current self advise the me of ten years ago?
  • If nothing could hold me back, what would I start tomorrow?

Get to know yourself better

The Cards by Guessy app has a dedicated self-reflection category full of thought-provoking questions. Try it free.

Download on the App StoreGet it on Google Play

Frequently asked questions

How do I use self-reflection questions?
Give them calm, undisturbed time. Write your answers down or say them out loud – the point is to be honest with yourself. No rush and no wrong answers.
What is a self-discovery card?
Self-discovery cards are question cards that invite you to reflect on a single topic. The Cards by Guessy app has a dedicated self-reflection category for exactly this.
Can these be used as a pair too?
Yes. Many people go through these questions with a partner or close friend – so you get to know not only yourselves but each other better.
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